Yesterday some parts of the world celebrated Thanksgiving. While it is not something we celebrate here in Australia, it is still worth reflecting on all the things in our lives for which we are grateful. While necessities such as clean drinking water and ample food are definitely up there, friendships are not far behind on the list of things for which I need to give thanks.
In honour of the tradition here is a list of things for which I would like to thank my friends.
Thank you to those of you who hear what I do not say. For those of you intuitive enough to feel the shifts in energy when I am feeling low and care enough to make sure I am ok. Which brings me to my next point.
Thank you to you all for providing that safe space to express myself, for listening to my fears and worries and providing much needed love, guidance and support.
Thank you for the time you take out of your busy lives to stop for a moment with me and enjoy a drink, a meal, a show or an activity.
Thank you for all the laughter, the smiles, the good times and fond memories.
Thank you for all the services you have offered, from babysitting to grabbing something at the shops for me, to picking me up in emergencies, or driving us to the airport at ridiculous hours.
Thank you for sharing yourselves with me too, for allowing me to support you, celebrate you and really know you in an unfiltered way.
Thank you for welcoming me into your homes, families and lives and providing that extra network that a smaller family cannot always offer.
Thank you for the birthday gifts, celebrations, gestures and warm words.
Thank you for always sticking by me through the up’s and downs.
Thank you for the graciousness and forgiveness and understanding you have offered in times of need.
Thank you for never judging me behind my back, and holding me accountable to my face.
Thank you for loving me, just the way I am.
Thank you for inspiring me to be better, and bringing diversity into my world.
Thank you for being you and for being part of my happiness.
Thank you for being my friend.
Today I give thanks to my friends; past present and future as each and every one of you brought joy and meaning into my life. Some painful lessons along the way perhaps, but I loved every single one of you and I am grateful for the part you played in my life.
Happy Thanksgiving Ya’ll! Now money cannot buy friends, but it can buy you a bunch of bargains in the Black Friday Sales! Happy Shopping too! haha
❤ Love,
Your Best Friend ForNever
xx
